Compassionate Doula Supporting Birth, Postpartum, and Grieving Families with Catholic Values
These answers are my first response before being edited by the Wilson County News!
QUESTIONS FOR DOULAS
Name: Mary Ripps
How long have you been a doula?
I have been a doula for 3.5 years.
How did you become interested in being a doula?
As a nanny, I fell in love with caring for the entire family, mother, and baby, and I continued to pursue this passion as a postpartum doula.
What kind of training or certification do you have?
I'm a trained Birth Doula, Postpartum Doula, and Newborn Care Specialist under Summer's Sleep Secrets. I have over two thousand hours working with infants and am in the process of applying for my American Association of Drugless Practitioners (AADP) Certification.
Were you involved in another career or field of study before you became a doula?
I began as a niche nanny for infants and learned about postpartum doulas. I enjoy serving the entire family and ensuring a smoother transition for everyone while welcoming a new life.
Are you a "birth doula," a "postpartum doula," or both?
I am both! I also support families who are grieving their losses. Regardless of their birth experience, I want everyone to feel loved and supported.
How much time do you spend getting to know a mother before she gives birth?
I enjoy getting to know my clients. That's the best part of this job. Sometimes, I have less than a week or a month to prepare, but I've learned that extensive preparation is only occasionally necessary. We figure things out together along the way.
Have you been present for a birth?
Yes, I've been present for four births so far.
How long after birth do you continue to assist the mother and baby?
During labor, I stay a few hours after the baby is born to ensure the mother's comfort and provide everything she needs to rest. Post-birth, I typically make a minimum of two visits to ensure the mother feels comfortable and strong during her transition.
What are some of the services you provide that prove the value of your role as a doula? For example, what have you done that no one else did for the mother or infant?
I openly integrate my Catholic faith into my practice. Reciting scripture, praying "His Will Be Done," and embodying the Holy Family during labor has been deeply meaningful for me and the families I serve.
Can you share an example of a woman's circumstances in which a doula particularly benefited her, such as being single or without a family?
In one instance, a mother decided to switch to formula feeding but faced pushback from the hospital, which strongly advocated for breastfeeding. I supported her choice, emphasizing that while breastfeeding is the gold standard, a mother's right to choose what she deems best for her child and her mental health is paramount.